本周万峰语录
<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：万老师我现在有个难题。我二十多岁了，现在想谈个对象。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：那很好啊，有什么问题？<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：问题是我觉得我的职业影响了我的爱情。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;">> 万峰：姑娘你是做什么的？<p></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：我在殡仪馆工作。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：（怒了）殡仪馆怎么了？殡仪馆还不是我们人人要去的地方！<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"> </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：万老师，我爸爸今年<span lang="EN-US">54</span>岁，和我妈离婚了，找了个<span lang="EN-US">19</span>岁的女朋友。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-language: EN-US;">> 万峰：呃，等一下。</span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">姑娘你今年几岁？<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：我<span lang="EN-US">18</span>岁。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：我说你爸爸是不是有点糊涂啊。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：是的，我觉得他很糊涂，而且这个女的是理发店工作的，我觉得她已经骗了我爸爸很多钱了。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：你赶紧劝劝你爸爸呀。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：劝了没用，他不听，还骂我是嫉妒那女的。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：那你就告诉爷爷奶奶。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：也说了，也没用。我爸说我奶奶是神经病。我现在不知道该怎么办。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：（为难）那这样吧，你去告诉你妈。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"></span> </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：万老师，我今年已经<span lang="EN-US">48</span>岁了。我跟我丈夫也都是再婚，中间经过了很多艰难才在一起。但是他现在又跟别人好上了。我们前一段时间离婚了。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：那你现在想怎样？<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：我想跟他复婚。因为我是这样想的，既然我也已经失去他了，还不如拖住他，也不让他跟别的女人好。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：这样吧，我介绍你去读一本书，是万峰最近在读的。<span lang="EN-US">XXX</span>出版社出版的《<span lang="EN-US">XX</span>婚姻现状报告》。现在万峰再也不劝人去心理咨询啦，因为老有人说万峰给心理咨询的地方打广告。其实万峰从来没有收过红包。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';"></span> </p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：万老师，我和我的初恋男朋友是因为他不肯结婚分手的。第二个男朋友去年<span lang="EN-US">3</span>月分手的，也是因为他不肯结婚。分手后我父母就给我介绍了一个男人，<span lang="EN-US">12</span>月我就跟他结婚了。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：听起来你特别想结婚，你多大？<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：我<span lang="EN-US">28</span>岁。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：那现在有什么问题？<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：结婚后三天，第二个男朋友来找我了，说当初没有真的跟我分手，只是想在事业上继续努力争取配得上我。他准备在<chsdate wst="on" year="2007" month="12" day="12" islunardate="False" isrocdate="False"><span lang="EN-US">12</span>月<span lang="EN-US">12</span>日</chsdate>跟我求婚。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：那又怎么样？你已经结婚了呀。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：我知道。可是他要求我离婚。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：姑娘你今天是故意来气我的是吗？<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：万老师，后面您会更生气的。因为我离婚了。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：（强忍怒气）好，那你预备跟他结婚罗？<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; mso-layout-grid-align: none;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">听众：但是刚刚过完元旦他又跟我说，他仔细想了想，觉得受不了我已经结过一次婚的事实，想再考虑一年。<span lang="EN-US"><p></p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt;"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">> </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman';">万峰：（崩溃 大吼）你这个男朋友是吃粮食长大的吗？！</span></p>页:
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